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Episode 4 · 1 year ago

Ep4 Porn 4 President 2020

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In this episode, Fab jumps, Gowse's moobs jiggle and we give shout-outs to our fans.

I think we just started hello,everybody and welcome to the are we done podcast he is gals. Are we doneyet it Ni sa to God we Gnna last to likeepisode, fucking five pay, I'm INA Divorcin, I'm Gongna devoce it. Okay, welcome everyone to the we don'tYe podcast, I'm gas, that pre Coven is mad and and y. This is episode for Man. So what you been up too Fab? What haveI been up to I've been all right yeah I do. I have been up to something I acouple days ago I went for my first jog of the quarantine, but there's beentalks of like the fact that you kind of needed one or, if you're gowing, Mar Yeah. I know it's fine, I mean yes, Imean you know. whetether people thought I knew deep down. I just wasn't readyto to confront it. No, by the way, I'm not rude to him, because he's Fa he'srude to my form myself. who was that so he's given me no option but to bullyhim? I mean a few concession, so I'vedecided to eat less because I was eating a lot. I found what I stayedinside. I just basically eat like three meals a day, but if you're inside D andthen I have snacked on top of it- which I never do, I just start realizing likeYo. I think I think, like what you are, what you eat is applying to me rightnow, like I just saw myself balooning so a few days ago I decided to gothorgh a jog because I'm a such a fat ork and- and I started yeah, you know I'm staying inCamdon, I decided to jog to Kings Cross and so I'm there, I'm jogging Juggi,dug it along and after about three minutes, I got so tight. Oh my God, it was so pathetic. I do appreciate that your first goalwasn't something easy around the nearby park, but to fucking king's crross yeah,but then anyway, so I usually, I will run without stopping for at least tenminutes and my goal is usually between fifteen and twenty and but this time Iwas like yeah, I I'm going to need to save my energies here. So I decide tostop for a minute and do a sort of like kind of interval. I walk for a minuteand the I jog again and I jugged again for another three minutes and I gotsuper tied again and then I decided by now I'm already quite close to Vaintikings cross and I and then I like, okay, well as I'm getting tired for that.Second, three minute run, I decide to just speed up because I'mjust going NA give it all I got, and so I'm just sprinting sprinting and I'mdoing I'm looing pretty good. I was like I didn't think I beat this fastwhen I'm distied and an this fat, and I because Kicks Cross has all these likehuge buildings ar bestlly made of glass, and I see my reflection. No, Oh, myGodi look like a seal. I look like a penguin like I. It was awfulte and Iwas like that's what the world sees. Oh, my God, I'm so happy everyone's in acourtgod. I Dik I mean obviously anyone affected by a covid Ya, obviously we'rebeing fategious here, but literally so I didn' feel a sense of belief that noone could see me and those that could would never see me again. I'm nevershow my face in kings cross, not until I have a six bact. So never is gonna, say gee like aiming for thestars to reach the movies one thing, but then you're lat, you'R, amestraight for NOEGALICD...

I'll, do itgain weight, but I'll loseweight pretty quickly. So I and a as I'm looking at my horriblereflection. If I was to describe this run, I would if, if the title wasn'talready taken, I would pick run fat boy rid black withat's. What it was it was.It was the worst reflection of my being I could have ever seen and as because I'm running so far, I'msprinting so fast like and I hadn't moved that much. I han't even gone onwalks that much. I just immediately start to like feel my bows moving, I'mlike, oh so now immediately. I want to go tok a huge DOCG and I'm in kings,trost now, and so I'm like okay, I'm going to hold up, I'm going to hold offand then I'm like, and then I stop and I walk. I walk. I walk like a round King ScrotSant Pancret, I' Mik God they have tilets here and I'm making. Then youknow, as you're approaching, like as your brain tells your body Oh iwe're,close to the toilet. You imeatly want to go tou. He Toy Mor ye, like you knowlike if you're Riu outside your house, opening the door e want o p like itjust your body. Just is like Yoa, you've got five seconds like t minis,ten right there, yeah so like I fucking go and I find a toit,I'm like sick and a w, because the station is so long. I end up walkingfive minutes following the toilet site signals I get them. I get there andthen there's just like the maintenance people and they're like Oh yeah. Toi isclose, I'm like so I kind of Survib a long story shorter. I end up fucking doing like power walking because I waslike. If I run, I would just shit myself, but if I walk too slow, I won'tmake it back so i'me kind of like Towerwalkingsoright in the middle of that story. I toa you mad say so. I just found asport when no one was looking and ISCOREIT. I mean literally, if theres a park anywherenear that I would have. I would have shit in ta part I would have. I wouldhave done it. It was so uncomfortable it happend. So quick as well, it waslike my body telling me it was like my body was like yeah. We've been backedup for weeks bro we needed to get meas soon, as I moved a little bit the need to Gothoh my God. It was sobad dude, but apar from that I've been good. How have you been? I mean my bows have been prettyordinary I've just been watching a couple of movies. Oh, I had like a little Danny, radcliffbinch, because as an actor, I love that man like after he was chosen to be thechosen child, the first child, the Chosen One chosen, one, the one thatdoesn't die yeah. I don't know what the NICKTAME is.What's the Nick Dabof Harry Pobra, he who shall be forgotten by Gals, Idon't know, let's go t that yeah after Harry Porl,like his like acting choices of being bagging, isn't like he's an ailisterbut doesn't have Tho Mindso an e Alis? U So I just Appro, I just love all thisfom, two films, I watch guns of Kimbo. I watch that and second one is escapedfrom Rhictoria. Is that that's the one in South Africa? Yes? Did you watch it?I haven't seen it hi've', seen it yeah Kay, we'll start with Vetoria, andthen we could both tak about a Kimba right, SOM. The basic primise of thestory, because I don't want to like give anything too much away. It's basedon this guy called Tim Jenkin and his book that he rea about his ownexperiences escaping from this present. He was a political prisoner during thetime of the ATC and the Bat Hol Shiban,...

...and it's hi story of how he escaped theprison within. I think four hundred ord days, and it's so good becausepersonally, like as a thriller like the Batthor Portion of the movie, wherehe's escaping is a great movie, as I like, like most prison, break movies,is just like it's I want say spandard. I it's pretty good, but like that onhis own would be great as if you could, you could convert that to any way inAmerica, and you could convert that to like any made up prison. You who callif FIC Ang ask about anything man yeah, it will still work or its own, but theactual premise of this whole south ire, South Africa, side of it and like rightat the end of it. It goes on and says, like the biggest man. Hun in SouthAfrican history ensued for these three people that Ar skaped they crossed theborder to Tansiny and then ended up in London. The fugitive, they're fugitivestill ninety one and then they'll pardon an ninety four Madella Walkson likewhat a motherfucker I'm the president and yeah. It's actually, and I honestly I'mreally bad with that kind of the whole South African history, because I suckwith genonole generally- and I don't think I knew much about it. So thisside of it was so fascinating to what yeah it was. Such a good movie blessyeah. That sounds really interesting. Man Like yeah the South South Africahas a is one of those. It's almost like. I don't know like a gemaicer or a Japanin serms, of, like the I mean ialof south Fafricas, a bigger country likeJamaica and Japanac Island, essentially, but like they like relative to theworll stage, they're like really small, but theyre, really small, but they havea lot of cultural presente. You know, and you feel like you should know aboutit, because it's like why woul? Why do you know about Japan and not CasakKasack Stan or something like you know. I don't know anything about ATI, sotrue, it's so true as it like. I'm not saying like the South African War, thecivil war and everything like that. Wasn't like out theres and it's notit's not saying Thi's like that, but the best way I could explain it or thebest way that I could relate to is likht, because I'm sure UNCUN, likethis trud of a civil war, was part of my childhood. As in like I woant to saythat I was a child of warathin like that, but my fa, my family, aremigrants of what yeah and like Tis par of like my origin and my heritage. LikeI remember, growing up and just feeling like people are like people are dying,so many fucking people ar die yeah and the news I just focusing on the MiddleEast and everything like that D. I'm hearing people say like Oh yeah. Theyjust care about that because it, the Oil Wan, there's nothing in Donco toactually focus on that shear and it's just like. Obviously, as a kid, I don'tknow what I'm hearing as it like. I just know that this should get somesort of like footage, and this should get some sort o attention, but it's not-and I guess after looking at this movie, that's exactly what I feel I feel like.I feel like kind of a prick for not knowing as much as I should know aboutSaeveri yeah. I mean I agree like I mean the same thing like you know, bothmy parents were born in Rowander and even though my dad did I like most o alot of as growing up in France like HEU still mand. It was like a huge genocidethere and in e in ninety four actually the gear I was born and- and so I grew up hearing about like theRamic famifications for a country, it was actually like Ond of like a widwayo a privilege to be to have that sort of first hand account of someone whounderstands what's happening. you politically in that area, growing up,athe, not gon a lie, a as a ten yea old. Sometimes I gets a bit intenseman'swing to watch punge Bob. You know, okay and and H. I think what bringing itback to your movie that you watched yeah, because I have caus such a fan,not fantastic, but like a really interesting like history withapartthides, it's got three races like there, I think, being mixed races, arace. Essentially when black and white people would have children they wouldbe, and then it grew up, they' be put into like one place so and theneventually mix race, people start having children with mixed race people,and that became its own race yeah, it's not so. But Anyway, I think what I likeabout what you just said is the fact that its basidoll true story, like YeahDaly, word, Cul Jusus, does a fucking fantastic jup of portraying this TimJank and character, and it's bloody...

...fantastic to watch, and I was going tosay h. This whole story kind of reminded me of this. This conversationI had with this goal pub. It was werke drinks and I started talking to thisgirl. She worked in a totally different department, she's South Afric. She wasborn in South Africa, she's Caucasian right and yes, she told me how, afterwatching this movie- and then her story came back to me as like shit, thingsWen, absolutely the opposite, sideround and like basically, there's like aquota for how many white children can go throughcertain colleges and Ceran scholarships and certain things and well. This isthis- is similar to any country with a major differentiation between H,majority AF minority, where, like Tlunkhas like there's a certain porterfor the amount of Tom Kids that can go through certain colleges and all thatstuff. But it's just. She was talking about her struggles of being white and,like she literally said like it's, not my fater born in this country as thiscolor and it's just like I just never fited in- and it's just hearing that Ijust like watching this movie, it's yeah, it's crazy man. It's crazy, OuShit, just literally turned into the opposite way around. It's I'e been yes, I mean like th the last Iheard of the situation. I Soth Africa is there's a lot of yeah crazy stofphappening. I think that, even though e there are a lot of white people in inSouth Africa, the byfather majority is black, but they think a lot of theblack population, not a lot, but some of the black population feel that youknow, even though apart oby ended the there's not there's not been enoughopportunities for people for Black People in South Africa, and then youhave extremess of that to wheher. They got to the point where I think yet.Theythey were killing like white farmers like, but there was a lot oflike yeah because they felt that they did not deserve h. t that position itwas was awful and ees. There is still like s a lot of tensions between likeextremists on both sides. It's Abiu it's nowhere near like a problem.That's fixed Becauseis, it's no easy fixed! It's like! Oh now, you can allgo in the same into the same places, but it's like all right that. Could weget these same opportunities and also it's like? I think what was smart wasthat South Africa also didn't remove. I think White People Dho in privilegedpositions in that place because had they done that, then you wou, O putother people who don't have the same type of knowledge, who might not beable to keep the system or that particular business going. So you knownever mind the sanctions that Western countries would have you know put on onit, yeah an it's fascinating and like yeah. That's the that's why I likemovies, like that, were just get you talking about the all like totallydifferent ward, like we've. Never me, and you have never touched on SouthAfrica bull. I know you're completely true and that's why I love just anysort of true story as much Af. I can it just it's. Obviously, to some extentyou have to take it with like a artistic pincer, so in the sense thatthey are trying to make as draumatized as possible, anonin saying as possible,but like after I do watch any sort of true events. I do end up researchingabout it, just just inevitably, because you kind of just have that, like hungerto no more and yeah, it's quite crazy. Do you want to talk about guns Akim? Yes, please! Yes,please! I just want to do I yesterday go ahead. You start off well, okay.What so? Those of you haven't seen cone to Kimbo is Daniel ratcliff. He plays asort of a bater mail with maybe in slightlyinsel vibes at the starts where yeah e, that's exactly. Ah, where he's his boss kind of picks onhim. T like not he's only got one friend at work and everyone seems to bekind of ru to about him and then he goes home and he kind of drinks andJacks off, and he comments on this kind of real live action game where Ta goalis to kill someone else. He commens to like th the wrong time to the wrongfight. I guess and they they're like Yo. If you don't shut up whet you're, goingto regret this and he's like Yoa whetre, you going to do an he stocks mothingafter them, and then he wakes up the next day and no Itheyr, not kin ta door,that night and it opened, is they break...

...into his door and they essectially muckhim out, and then he wakes up with two guns bolleted on to is yeah bolted ontohis heds. It's actually crazy and the movie just amaz me how like everlyplayed it. He wanted to make it as evedent as possible to go in the routethat it's basically as if it's a video game and it's Lik when even when theydid the first person angle, they would say like how many bullets on the Left,how many Bul Tis in the right and like the scenes of him, trying to pick uphis phone and trying to text no, it was such a good film man. I go so into it,it's actually it's done so, incredibly. Obviously they could have played it ina more philosophical way and all that Shar and seeing like societys gone tothe level where our only entertainmer is seen actual murder but like theywent for a very video game, ask very light: Yeah, like it just ogt sort ofaction, vibes it's com somewhere, I between like kickas and Scott Pilgrim,iould, say yeah, I coul yeah. That's that's a good comparison. I like thatyeah yeah. I agree like I think they couldhave okay. What what I like about it was. The look like because hit cletyhad a very small budget, but they still made that look that thes dilistically.It was very cohesive and, like you said, it was kind of like a mad look like avideo game like the story and the twist are kind of like, like I sai like a thedecent, the od I was gonna say. The only thing that I wasn't sure about isthe the tone, so I think it kind of switched from being like maybe likeearnest, where you're kind of meant to feel bad for this guy. But then it isin such an outrageou situation like killing people literally then hebecomes like kind of absurd with like the girl like snifps, the coke like soso I don't know. I don't know what tothink, but I kind of like that. The movie made me not know what to thinkabout is like what are they going for. It could have all been on purpose. Itcould have been like yeah. I do feel like that that whole, like I completelyagree, wiy went for as an like. The first few, like I remember, looking atthe time e Wat, the guns core boated, because obviously from the trainer, youknow thet that's going to be the case, and so then first thirteen minutes ittakes for the guns to happen and then the rest of the moove for, like the IAS,it next half hour, we're like trying to like sympathize for this guy who's.Actually like scared as fuck and he's getting bullied by everyone. That'swatching the schism show saying like. Ah This guy's whipping out he's gonnadie of He's gonna die of old age, not even by getting short asit like thiscould have been. I want to say this could have been a bagging TV show ifthey lengthened it for like a seven episodes. He had a characterinfestwhere he had to like get stronger and get like more ruthless and actuallycommit committing murder, rather than it does feel lake. One point like hejust switches on to like killing people out of nowhere, but he was also the guythat puked. When he shot a gun, he meed exactly adhapts very quickly yeah. Hehe adapted very cuil for me, throwing up after shooting a guy to just be ing,comfortable killing, and you know, there's an all givement to like wellonce you've done it once Weywe, just lean into it and you, if, if you DOTT,kill yourself as soon as how bad do you really feel, then you know you can justadapt and lean into the fact that okay, I kill now. This is what I do also onething that came to my mind like yet is like when the whole, when they had thewhole scene of that explaining what skhism was and how it's like anunderground thing where, like they get to people to kill each other andthere's drones like videoing, and then they pack into security cameras totrack these two individuals and see, and they bet on them and all that Shit.Like one thing that came to my I kicked, my thought is like this might have beenlike reality right now. If there wasn't such thing as the dark wor, I do knowthat lost Shit. A Little Crapa Trash seeps out from the dark nent ontoeveryday, like what we see around us into w and dumb what Avidus that endsup sharing and all that shit but like...

...if there wasn't like this conglomera orcommunity of like absolute psychobatic cunts, that shouldn't exist in thisworld, having this own dark net to themselves, for everything known toMandisate, Wen some legal stuff that are just questionable. It's like ifthose people didn't have that. I could imagine that that toxicness actuallyjust seeping into the society we live in right now. I see what you mean, butI actually think if there was any place where a show like that could happen orwhen a situation like that could happen, it would be in a Dar Qeb like the darkweb is like its aboluty name. It's dark, like I knew one guy at university o waslike in the who used to order some stuff, some some greencigarettes from the Dakway and is some ECO friendly cigarettes, and we were on a like a one point. Ithink, and then there was like some guy offering like two thousand to to mailjust like tin, foil and and toilet paper like it was offer Ike twothousand pounds and T en we figured out that Oh this must be like someterrorists or someone in the hiding some some horrible person, that's likein hideit. So it's the dark web is dark man, so if Itas any place with when Ithink a show like that could happen because it even if itasis lackwordwasn't there, it wouldn't be on like Channel Four like you, wantn' couldn'thave like a skin. No, I know I know, but but I do feel like what the filmsintinuing is. It's not it's not like this. This secret group that arewatching this it does make. It seem like this is on like an everyday San,that anyone can access, Oh yeah and and that's what I'm trying to say islike. I would imagine this would do greater the dark wan we'll get hitsofter hit, so it'll go varo on the Dorkwit, but I would imagine like I'mjust saying like if there wasn't a place like the dark. Well, I do imaginethis becoming the reality. I feel like the only way that Kism isn't. Ourreality is because dark wlub is like acting as like a prison for the BattolKons of the world to just stay there and then just multiply yeah. I see it,but I think with that's the case with like most sort like the same way thatlet's say in this country we have freedom of speech. Aswe could sayanything so long as we're not insigting O rigot like the idea is that anyonecould say anything. But if you go out to like, let say wesmine square or likesomewhere with is a protest happening. You get on Tha podium and you say:Let's fucking burn this place down. People like te sociologically, there'sbeen sudies to show that people mort susceptible to those type of you knowradical ideas when in a group, so so I think we were influencing a Lotson wayeand the same way that, like yeah, you know, if you, if you didn't, let's say, stop if you go and whatsomeone Wal just allowed to pick two random people that they hade to killeach other or they both died, and I was allowed to havepen int society it'll,be people will go into it and after three years there be more people willgot into it and after twenty years, there'd be people that were born intothat reality is tu like what thit's just part of my reality, why its isnormal, that I mean yeah. I can't fight this, I'm not doing it that so manysituations in life where you just like. I can't fight this. So let me just joinit like it's a very fu, I mean I completely agree. I've got one thingwritten down that I wanted to talk about which I could segr onto is likelike how you saying like where, like certain things that are wrung certainthings that shouldn't be the case are accepted, is like on Youtube. Find Stu,for example, is like Click Bas. It US somewhat of a joke years ago, but nowyou can't see anything without and now obvusy youeyou see videos of PTA. UQuite Popular Youtute was actually just faking that they got covid, and thenthere was one video that literally mad me, lose all f the fucking belief inhumanity where he said his newborn had...

...covid and he's cued, and I mean it'sone of the the dilemmas of our Ero. Now is you know which which sources canweprove? You know, I think, a lot of people lak, very quick to you know tobe like h. You know, fuck, you know the BBC or Fuck Channel Four Fuckit, themainstream news. You know they're just fucking telling us what the governmentheads want us to hear whatever you can't trust them, but then you knowwith all these unlane sources, and I think you know it's important to goonline like D and find out. You know different account of you know, let'ssay facts that you got, but I think you know people are too quick to dismissthose those institutions because they don't they have a lot more recoursewhen they are wrong. So if you G, if you, if someone goes hey you printedthis, and this was wrong and then they have to address and they have to saywell this this. This was wrong and they have to print it on the website andthey often do bus on online. They don't have to dothat and often times they don't they just double down and they could justcreate new facts. Lance Endlesse, so fucking, true asd, then, like you,won't trust BBC, who, I believe every Saturday have a show dedicated toviewers complaining about what they put, what they what they've reported onright. You know that show I'm talking about right. Yeah Yeah, like yeah, Iforgot it's called, but basically yeah anyone could like email is. I questionOoh I didn't like this and I didn't nowe that it's usually just Tories justripping us apart, but still they even give them a chance to talk. And butthen you will believe the fucking like what you hear on, like social media andShila am from a youtube, but who starts their apology, video with the longestsid known to man after the press record? It's like they press record and thenthey sit down and they go it's just that's where you know they'regoing to apologize for being racial as huge. The podium apology, J disappointed, my myself, my family,my friend, I've made a continuous and Waiwei'vegot he. I pretty sure I know the love en Pol one of my heart. I've made acontinuous and reckless lack of Jodgen me yeah yeah, you carr, a video dedb,so fucking aandyou know it'Ohit was like I got yeah. I was caught caught up in he moment offrustration. Ditwe didn't catch, you wanking man, we could you. We cyorecorded t dead, Bodty, ATS, notexus. All right so my take for I guess this week is thegrowing ti me and Joe My fatmate. We were talking few days ago. We went tosat on the bench and we just drinking and talking and we got onto the idea ofhaving kids and he express okay. Some are you guys adopting that yeah rel no might start with a puppy, andthen you know see with the humans o Gono but E. I think him more than me,but he had a c healthiest kepticism, as the weather having hes actually doesn'twant to have kid. Okay and e EXPRESSD, like some photosophical concerns sortof antinatalism. I think that's what it's called. Okay. Can you proceed aNexplan, because I don't know this fancy it? The idea is: There's like I guess. The philosophy isbringing a child UN to this earth might not be ethical or fair for that childbecause of the myriad potential that child has tojust suffer and yeah. So I think that that's the ideaand there's that's a philosophy, philosoph Cardea and I think now Ithink in Western countries, as actually they've become more atheist and somemight describe it more of that kind of lialism. They Lov people feel like they.Don't they shoul they don't they want tat, they don't have children becausethey don't think it's such a good idea.

Well, do you want to have children? Iguess, as my Thewal I start with that I probably was more against the ideabefore, but that wasn't. For that reason it was more of a thing of like Iwas more like career driven and I was thinking like I would never have kidsbefore, like the age of Thri, thinty, five like it's, no India priority forme, yea and then, like my like yeah, I mean like I bring e het up as manytimes as you bring up. You Know Franke, so I'm as a bring up lack yeah s like when laks came into my lifeand stuff. It Shit kind of changes and you kind of talk about different Shitand you kind of like yeah yeah mentally. I am definitely there and I don't think I'm like. I don't know ifI'm talking about, I do probably see like marrying e in like next couple ofyes, so yeah. So I don't think kids are that far away, but what I was going tosay with kids isn't like I get, I'm definitely one kids and I completely, I do understand to someextent where et's coming from with that point- and I do know that Thatis ageneral point that is put across there as e like the kids- don't get a choose.So why wouldn't you put them into hem suffering? But then I don't know Idon't. I don't see this world as any more any less suffering than when wecame into it. If anything like like, we talked earliers and like we are, we arelike proucts of war and weave got a much better life than we would have hadin in a parallel universe, that our parents didn't move and if anythingwere privilege enough. That win in a position enough to like support ourkids in a different way that our parents could not and coming from a guythat was brought in a pretty strict family there's so much. I would want todo for my children that I could like not improve, because that's that's justbeing, I guess, inlike unreasonable with where my parents come from, butit's more in the Kinit Solf like just there's so many things that I felt like.I was like restricted from that as a kid that chick that I guess calbedwwhoe. I am right now, a man with n infinite amount of insecurities, so Iwould probably want to like give them everything I wanted at that age andthen, when my daughter is taking nodes when she's fourteen Il probably Fesoyou yeah, okay, I guess it's so you'l say that your there was maybe certain ways in which he workedspoiled like th things that you thought maybe any timewore reasonable request that your parents denied you, because you know oftheir own personal philosophies in the wor the way they wanted to bring you up,yed precisely wher. Then Yeah Iacaus thinkeveryone kind of dozz that as a kid you like, Oh okay, I'm a kids, thes adults.Oh when you're an adult, you have kids o. What would I be like if I had kids?Oh I'd be away better parent than my parents. Everyone thinks that, and I do I do think they do act upon it,but they only probably act to plenty of like ten percent as much as they wantedto because of just the reality that hits you and the whole idology of likekeeping some sort of discipline to actually keep your kids of somewhat ofa good person. So yeah like every generation, does a better job, but thatis just a case of like how far you could take it. Yeah, THAT'S INTERESTING!I'm torn on the subject, because, okay, so you', not sure if you want yeah, Imean I because I like I really like kids, and I remember like my twoyounger siblings, like my sister Talia, she was born when I was seven and mylittle brother was born when I was ten so essentially by the time I was like,like iibout to change, then tat piece I got to like hold them like all of these,like kind of develop, wig maternal, like abilities like as I was like you knowwhen I was in charge so, and I really...

...liked in l and IE, remembered thembeing like babies been being toddlers damn being teenagers, isn't it funnyhow you'r the one Shat Yeah? I know man. I thing about life, it'scyclical Mani, acircle of like so I think I definitely I enjoy. Let'ssay the nurturing aspect of children and en I had like you, R,literally the best situation where you have nonthe responsibility, basicallynon a major responsibility: Yo'l have to buy the food pay for rents. You knowyou just all you do you get to do, is be in charge and mould them. So you kind of like I kind of enjoyed alot of that, but you know I kind of whenl at when I think about it. Asanything can happen, like you know, like the struggles, I know, I've metpeole men, lowds of girls. First of all, it's I'll say this. It's surprising theamount of girls I've met that I've. Had you know some like traumatic experience,specifically with, like you know, sexual assaults like it's it's all ofthat I think, is deeply like kind of puts the fear of God in me andalso wh n. When I hear it like, I speak to it like all my like friends and likeGuyls, that I've got out within the past is, and they open up and tell methese things like also one I just ime gained like a difference like I just arespectful, I guess the struggle of being born a go. I can't agree anymore.I do think that having a sister, you might have felt it like to some extentgrowing up it. Just generally, don't have that and well yeah family of threeboys, two two brothers like a decade older than me, and but then yeah when Iwhen I heard those stories Yiu know when I've like I still I genuinelycan't remember like. I can't forget how it made me Feel II've. Never like thatwhole stereotypical phrase of like oh I shuddered. When I had now I genuinelyshimed I was feeling cold. I was sweating of the how cold it was. I Ishocked me like the cuty of man. I guess it's just it. Yeah T fucks you upand you get ad Yeu find respect for women and you you want to care for them.More yea makes any sense and you you just got a new hatred for men aswell yeah yeah. But what said exactly what I've said? What don'tyou agree like you probably felt like theg like having a sister, you probablyfelt like that Vibal litl early on and then, when you heard the stories andstuff like that that hear you after, but like me, like I d, I guess I nevergot like that. Girls point of view for a while. Obviously everyone knows tosome extent what that these shits happen, but it's just when it happensto love ones. What happens to people around? You is just like it's jarringhow fucking Commoni? Yes, yes and it's it. I genuinely had trust issuesimmediately. I think I became more ND, more skeptical by just generalstrangers. I just didn't trust them, and it's just like it just put me onedge and yeah. I don't think I don't think I've ever got over and I don'tthink I will yeah it's. I agree I mean that's literally, like I said, like oneof my, I think one of my most base concerns of you know possibly havingchildren specifically having a go, is yeah go hapen and like just the Tomen,they go through yeah, exactly that's what we're saying, kids being a Gulexactly like the amount of girls, whove spoken to me and told me that, likethey've gone through something like that, like you know sexual harrassmentsexual assault, you know even a rape, it's crazy! It's crazy! How common itis the raise offus on this pordon. It's not like I'm saying, like I haven'tseen that and I would love thats the reality where I could say that Ihaven't seen that, but no t, that's not the case. I definitely know all ofthose I've known someone. I know someone that has been right, bu nowsomee that has been sexurio. So I I know, that's someone. That's been likeit's just it's yeah, it's scary, being...

...a go on this fucking earth is such astruggle and I yeah. I completely agree why why that might be the deterrent toeven have kids with the chance of it being a go, but in my head how I see itis like I think, I'm as a man of Jew, like the responsibility of like raisinga door with the mindset that she's worth a thousand men and giving her thescort and everything that she needs to like take on this wold, like a fuckingBarass, I hear that I hear that I so an yeah, and I do think that you know inthe end of raising the doors. I think the most important thing is just realy.You know. I think that Ou society is a lot more open and you know people more willing to talk about these typeof things but yeah, but a I think, having a daughter- and you know, makingall ware that these things like they are thing jus out there liketheresthere's things that situations that, maybe you know you shouldn't like you? U Wher, youhave to think twice before entering because and consider considered theimplications of that upset situations so yeah. I agree that it starts at homelike, but but also, but obviously there's a wider thing. Bute like no onecan control any outcome of anything. I think also it's important to say that Ido think that it's right most men. I think I it just donot act in a way where this w. What this happens like, I think, if it were,if most men were like this ther'll, be a lot more and thit'll be a lot more inhe in the open. But I think what it is is like. There was a significantminority of men who are just just feel like they can do the like, be Weir, and you know, and fucked upI'd sexually WHORASSD, a D and rape and all these things, and what happens is that they don't just doit to one person. They do it to multiple people, because I so so Ithink that's why it feels like it's everywhere. So I think it's importantso like to me I's like okay, even though this may happen. I think thereis like, if that was on the out. If let's say a case like that, H was putup there in the ethe. I think a lot of most men would just be disgusted andthen most men would actually want to find that person shoot them and killthem. I think that kind of Gu puts me more at ease the fat that it's not thatyou don't have to look at. You know your fellow man that you don't know andlook at him like. Oh you know, you're, probably the only site, your probably a fuckingsexual deviat. Sad thing is, like you can't say, in good conscience that youcan't say he's definitely not a sexual deven. All you can say he might be, buthave no reason to think he is so far. But let me stay vic. I guess I guessthat t that shows a lot as in when we have to think about these stuff, whenthe idea of just having kids is in the on the table that I guess shows asSosiy. We are in and dags that ondself kind of gives a point to what joe issaying in the sense. This is the reality thet way in and say. If we dogive IRT and not ask Yi but but say if we do have a child and it happens to bea daughter and then we are putting et in a world that ther this evil exists,and are we in the wrong for doing so that I guess that's Ha philosophybehind me? Isn't it yeah? I mean, I think, the philosophy behind think itlooks at the idea yet like we're talking about how the unborn child is,might not be happy, but it's not suffering or sad therefor bringing thiminto a situation where there is suffering and suddeness and as well aspleasure, might perhaps be an ethical given thefact that you don't have the tools to control the world around you and whoand what kind of people you know kind of agents. People around you areso yeah man, it's it's it's one, essentially the sexual thingor like h, the sort of ESA toxic behavior that people have ingeneral is one of many factors that...

...call suffering and but then you know a toughic. I was GOINGTO say likeyou're, saying how, like you're torn between that you OV. If you should havekids annoise like what would you say the other side? Is We oh well t theother side is Iwas Son Joes, like I think I would adopt the essentiallyyou're still getting the privilege of like raising a life, and you can stilllike see that life develops. I think was like one of my favorite thingsabout seeing my my little siblings drow up, just like you know like talk tothem and then they just going like blood blah blah and then like two weekslater, the same words and then two years later, Theye like walking andlike having decent conversations like. I remember my brother telling me abouthis first vode NSI, like really meaningful to me and it'll, be like an awesom experience tolike and also this could. This could also be coming from a position ofprivilege because yeah like we, like you, said like people like the worldwas worse a hundred years ago. It was worse than that, a hundred years beforethat and so on, and so on and so on, and they were a lot. You know crazierhorrifying things, a lot more crazy and horrifying things happening, and yetpeople step kept. You know, like you, know, having progeny like youknow and how you know what was it was it wrongof them? I don't know, I think I don't think so. I think you know it'simportant. I think it's important to keep the siety Goang and to keep developing, but I think thatthe reason I wanted to have this conversation is to like really toanyone listening. It's like you'll be interesting if one person, maybeinstead of just naturally feeling oh now, is a time to have children. Let mehave some children utoh. This happened by Mistakeis. I they actually thinkingdeeply about the ramifications, as well as the the many benefits of havingchildren instead of just letting it naturally happen. I think to me that'smy position is, if, like I think, people should think more about whetherto have children or not and how an what situation there in and and then youknow, decide whether to take that leap and do it then that I think they've. No,I completely agree as in like and I do think as a society we do have much moreexposure to the rest of the world and the questions that we need to askbefore we consider like continuing our so called legacy and yeah yeah. Icompletely agree where you coming from and guess it does put a lot morequestions in my head of M, who, I guess was a very sure person of kids. It slike you might kill my hunbord children a sit. You might just thanks for Thasorry Im oiit happen by accident. Iknow Ma Strai ou to Corto because also like I mean this isobviously very philosophical, towalk and Wer all obviously thinking thinking through this like on the fly,but you know without said, I have four siblings. Like my dad is you know, O e, Philip progenitive man, let's saylike just a man who likes having children and Hee love, s he's got thefive of them so and I don't think any of us reallyresent him for being born. So obviously we, you know, we've all gone throughour struggles and you know where where even though we're trying to be betterand we we have things that we're not happy with things that we're very happywith you know it's, I don't think anyone wishes their one borm. So I think that's also worked, but I thinkI just thought it was an interesting way to Cos Yeai this thing that just issupposed to be the most natural thing humans being human beings, do in theworld yeah that most people ont Don, really think twice about, or even thinkthat always could this be wrong. How could it be wrong when it feel so good...

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My One, my page goes as follows: It was when it's kind of like a nice story of every now and then, as you as youcontinue to live through life and the years go by. You realize a some things.Go Ful thrd ND sixty and this is what happens. I when I waswhen I lived in Porch Chol Lik, ING polic schools in the ages of sevenThethirteen, and I know that I just can't stopmentioning it. For some reason. I had my friends I y best friends, someofbest friends to this day and what we did. We used TA always Hav out aroundin the neighborhood and it's one time and they were all Oller than me twothree four years older than me. So around like the age of nine, we sortof worm like in my friend Max's building and we left, and then therewas used to be this cafe. Where my friend college his mom worked out, andwe saw that there was between the Max's building and te calf. There was a gaplike the building which is quite high up, and then there was a gap where you could like fall, and thenthere was like the other building, but it was a small gap for some reason:Kids be kids, being kids, anyone decided, oh we're, goingto jump, and sothey so college is fucking with first I was and then he jumped from onebuilding to like another. It was. It was a small gap. It wasn't that bigAGAP. I was supposed to go next and I was like no now you go first cause notsceped. Shitless Shit, my pents Whech JS seems to be a theme. This episodeand and Hlik also Sponsore mydefication and all of our our group went and hen.I was just Darand, I was like, I know, for a fuct. If I jump, I won't make itto like the next building. I will just fall and die. I know that's what willhappen. I just e it, and so I got a go and Istand up and then I was just standing there and I'm like all right. I'mGoinna go and go, and then I just wouldn't move and then I was like, butI can't go back down. I can't go, I'M NOT gonna. Do it about. I can't go backdown, and so I just I was there for like what seemed like. Thirty minutesis probably just one minute because they all did it so quickly. I was likefuck nd, so I tried to then I almost jumped- and I was like na I'm just I'll-just die. I know for fuck es casn ow year I'll be in a weel char. That's thebest gase now, and so I like just in shame, I go climb downand then I go tdown. I go and meet them on the other side now cut to about fourteen years later, for Greece, Ghos to Portugal in January,Thsd and twenty and then he's about to meet his mate Carlers, and then he seezthat same building. Oh that's! Why that that's where everyone jumpeding, Ididn't! The BRECE had two or three bees ae brece goes up that building and he'slike Hoh. I mean it's. Actually it's not that bad! Now I still still kind ofscared, but sal right. I could do it and then I'm like okay. Well, if I doit, I have to drink this because I can't jump with the beer, because youkind of have Ou. You want land properly, and so I just down my ber and I'm justthere and then I film it as I drop. I I film it and everything goes well andthen that's how you know. I I completed Completeli my task fourteen years late. I know you had the best avenging storyever I honestly. It means it's so small, butit means it meant so much to me I genally felt less like a pussy like...

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What time he school ending. No, what make what Le Him do it Ltrustissueslater on in another page from our membors. I will tell you anotherinvasion of prevacy that they've done where they called at the wrong time andI've got call for lying again, but that teysude for that one. That was a BiggOssewhoiping, but this one I was a kid. They give me the biggest ASS MON thing.I remember and yeah it's not like they could growd meanymore than they yeah groundidg me while raising me, but then they justwhooped my ass in a colored way and yeah. I remember, I still remember theasswhopping the speed at which they dragged me inside the house was like. Iknow, childline exist. They can't Lan. You Caucasian see this, but yousomebody Gona et up witenape. You know someo Gu, he's a story. Have you readit? So I went on a couple of dates withthis girl and she was giving me some signs that she was ready to get alittle physical, so I leaning closes and tried to kiss her. She turns herface away from me. Stand I end up going home and thinking it was all overbetween us later on. She contactd me and starts hinthing. We should go inanother day. I decide to go for it again after getting some heavy hit. Shepushes me away so now I just ask Er. I was like what's going on, she says I'mon dates with you, so I don't feel like I'm desirable, but I'm not attractiveto no out. Oh oshe called me the next day, and I toldher I'm not dating people who made me feel undesirable. Then I hang up what and then there's a guy below thatcomments. Dude, you may have just solved one of the biggest mysteries ofmy life, I'm going to assume what I was once on the same situation as you mayI've been there. I've actually been there and this t a I like. I think Ithink I've acknowledged it but like for a god to say all right, hey props, toheurself wit and and second, I'm not gonna like most guys that do it they're,not Selfawaye, why they do it they just they think they do it. For attention,but it's a little bit deeper than that, but yeah I'm like this is about this,isn't like it's a shorty but like I felt like Wai ment, I had to bring itup in the pot. Sopangato actually have a story about that. Well, my one it sit was. It was kind of like a mindfuck. I was like. I was working just beendrinking with a fewmates, so I basically I had to get tbus to get home.No, I get this. I get this first bus end up in wood. Green have to wait liketwenty minutes is like one of those where you're like late ind, the bosesare relydelayed, and so I'm there and then this girl start speaking with me,and I think she just finished a shift ot some plub I was like, I would havesaid. Eighteen she would have been like you know. Early is she's talking to meand we're getting along and I'm just like. Oh cool, I'm making a laugh,she's making me love it's sick, Oh my God, I'm fucked as well! I'm reallyjoying and then she's like and we kind of she's like Wel. What sh we leave atthe same bus stop and she's like Ijust, want to lift home because she's had acar there next to his station, and then I was like hey cool yeah. We get e. Shegive me a lit. This is honestly the cringest rement of my life you en infor the kids TT. Well, thankfully, no but O it's still bad sheas, like allright he's your house that wot ias like yeah cool. It's like o cool. I reallynice to me. It was like yeah. So what's up and then she's like what ind the fuck Yho Knowi was like ohyeashoud I should at Coan I get your a number H, yeah cool s like Oh that's, Ot, the anse Iwatchid, and so I took my phone ot gave her my phone. She put the number downand then I soon have left it was like.

Before I even got into the house. Idelete her Dumbe ND. I was like I just want to forget. The sunter happened! Nobecause I couldn't believe the fact that I thought that we were reallyclicking and she was just being like. Oh this guy is really cool. I'm justGoinna give him a lipts home. It's like on Mo on the way to my house. I Wul I up this one MNI story that thatreminds me of where the legit opposite happen. It was, shall I s Yeh its Cu for Dan and I feel,like all you boys were somewhere around the club. I couldn't find you guys andthen I was buying a dream for myself and then this girl was next to me andshe was cute. She blamed me he was checking me out. I did not acknowledgethis in one way: shape or phone and then she's just like we started talkingmaking conversation and she se is ou her betday and then I buy her drinkbout im gives her drink first and then takes it. It takes a little longer formy drink and then she gets her drink and she was like thank you for thedrink, and then I was like Yeah Jont to go to your mates. I didn't realize how rude I might havesounded but, like I didn't think of like getting with her or like evencontinue the conversation I was like. What's your birthday, go you drink fuckoff. It's like my bran did not even unlookthat portion. It's like yeah, you you've got it leave I okay yeah, okay,okay, a and she was just like. She was still giving me the eye, and I was justlike you know when you remember certain portions of your night and I'm justlike I'm thirsty, but a girl was up for itand I literally told her to whirdle away like she was cuteas fuck, and Iwas just like brain. Why do you do that? To me? She wasn't meant to be DU. She wasn'tin to be just announcement. We would like tohave a section of listeners, questions and everything. So if you do anyquestions, if you do have any stories that you can', you want to send to us.Please email it to us ordmus the emails. Are we don't yet PODA GMODCOM Oho? AreWe dong yet pit on Igho be able to find US s fomedms on Apple podcast? If youcan, if you have the heart, please raite us and give us a review. It'sThot ony way we're going to actually get out there. If you want to rate USanything, less than five star go, fuck yourselves pieceout and you can follow gals set Gauskay oninstagram and you can follow a fir back. Fabby Fadman on instagram and you canfollow us on the podcast. Are we done yet podcast on Instagram as well? Arewe done yet EEPISOD forjow for now.

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